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Conflict Management Styles and Strategies

Most people will know that effective conflict management is vital for fostering a harmonious and productive workplace. So how to handle conflict and how to have difficult conversations are skills that we address in each of our coaching offerings.

Research emphasises on the importance of strategies and the Thomas-Kilmann model is commonly used to explain the different conflict management styles.

Understanding the Five Conflict Management Styles

Managing conflict effectively is crucial in today’s dynamic business environment. Whether you’re negotiating a deal, handling team disagreements, or working with clients, understanding these five conflict management styles can help you navigate challenging situations more successfully.

1. Avoiding

When faced with conflict, some choose to step back and disengage. This approach can be useful for cooling down heated situations or when issues are relatively minor. However, avoiding conflict rarely resolves the underlying problems and may lead to missed opportunities for growth and understanding.

2. Competing

The competing style is assertive and results-oriented. Those using this approach pursue their objectives firmly, often suited for situations requiring quick decisions or when unpopular actions are necessary. While effective in crisis situations, this style should be used sparingly as it can strain relationships and create resistance.

3. Collaborating

Collaboration represents the ideal in conflict resolution, where parties work together to achieve optimal solutions. This approach digs deep to understand core needs and concerns, leading to innovative solutions that benefit everyone involved. Though time-intensive, collaboration builds stronger relationships and creates lasting resolutions.

4. Accommodating

The accommodating style prioritizes relationships over personal goals. It can be valuable when maintaining harmony is important or when the issue at hand matters more to the other party. While this approach can build goodwill, overuse may lead to unbalanced relationships and missed opportunities to achieve important objectives.

5. Compromising

Finding middle ground through compromise often provides quick, mutually acceptable solutions. While neither party achieves everything they want, this approach ensures both sides gain something meaningful. It’s particularly effective when time is limited or when two equally matched parties need to move forward quickly.

Understanding when to apply each style is key to effective conflict management. The most successful professionals adapt their approach based on the situation, relationship dynamics, and desired outcomes. By mastering these five styles, you’ll be better equipped to handle challenges while maintaining productive relationships.

Besides the Conflict Management Styles we should also talk briefly about some strategies when dealing with conflict. 

Here are 5 Essential Conflict Resolution Strategies

1. Recognize Biased Perception

Everyone tends to think they’re right during conflicts due to egocentrism, our difficulty in seeing situations from others’ perspectives. Consider working with an unbiased expert to gain a more balanced view.

2. Avoid Escalation

Resist making threats or ultimatums, because these often lead to escalating tensions as people tend to respond in kind. Explore all other conflict management options before considering more aggressive approaches.

3. Bridge the Divide

Combat the “us versus them” mentality by finding common ground. Focus on shared goals and similarities between parties. The more connections you establish, the more likely you are to reach a collaborative solution.

4. Address Underlying Issues

Surface-level disputes, often about money, usually mask deeper concerns about respect or recognition. Pause financial discussions to explore and address these underlying issues, which can lead to more creative solutions.

5. Navigate Sacred Values

While some values appear non-negotiable (family bonds, religious beliefs, moral codes), many are actually flexible under certain conditions. Carefully analyse situations to find solutions that honor core principles while allowing for compromise.

To learn more about evidence-based conflict resolution strategies, have a look at the 5 Conflict Resolution Strategies.

What we offer

Our conflict management services are based our own experiences in leadership as well as best practices and research; and tailored to meet your organisation’s unique dynamics.

We focus on equipping leaders and teams with the skills and processes necessary to address and resolve conflicts constructively, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth. Here is what we can offer: